new learnings last two months

Learning 1.

• We are always driven by imagination that our dream will come true. This is sometime possible sometime not.
• Interesting fact is that we are many times more happy by imagination that certain dream will come true than actual happiness we get when dream get realised.
• Now, most dreams come to end on negative ends. then we are unhappy.
• When we are unhappy , we find some external locus of control. We find some logic saying that current state is more favourable than what we wanted to. But this is not good. Accept the truth as it is. Feel the sadness for some time. And then... How to come out ? ..That is great question. Answer is that visualise new dream and follow it.
• Now how happiness can be permanant ? See some big dream which will be unlimited, which will be for others (not self). Then you will be happy for whole life by imagination that dream will come true.

Learning 2

• Be pure ! Loosing something by being pure is better than getting something through cheating.
• Be what you are ! Dont change yourself for somebody else.
• Face the reality.

Learning 3

• Happiness is in sharing.
• Share with everybody. Dont create dependancy. If people start ignoring you because of your high sharing. Find few more. World population is growing as anything. :)

Learning 4

• Nothing is constant. Everything changes. You should be in synchronization with natural cycle.

Learning 5 (combo)

• Key to happiness is creating good humor. Laughter. Happiness is not something you achieve. It is what you think !! 
• Busy schedule is remedy for all problems. Empty mind creates distration

Few practicals

• Avoid excessive use of Gtalk ! :) :)
• don't analyse so much.. live the movement.. Hihihihihi..
• I feel really sorry for emotional dependant people. I am happy to be independant. :)