new learnings last two months

Learning 1.

• We are always driven by imagination that our dream will come true. This is sometime possible sometime not.
• Interesting fact is that we are many times more happy by imagination that certain dream will come true than actual happiness we get when dream get realised.
• Now, most dreams come to end on negative ends. then we are unhappy.
• When we are unhappy , we find some external locus of control. We find some logic saying that current state is more favourable than what we wanted to. But this is not good. Accept the truth as it is. Feel the sadness for some time. And then... How to come out ? ..That is great question. Answer is that visualise new dream and follow it.
• Now how happiness can be permanant ? See some big dream which will be unlimited, which will be for others (not self). Then you will be happy for whole life by imagination that dream will come true.

Learning 2

• Be pure ! Loosing something by being pure is better than getting something through cheating.
• Be what you are ! Dont change yourself for somebody else.
• Face the reality.

Learning 3

• Happiness is in sharing.
• Share with everybody. Dont create dependancy. If people start ignoring you because of your high sharing. Find few more. World population is growing as anything. :)

Learning 4

• Nothing is constant. Everything changes. You should be in synchronization with natural cycle.

Learning 5 (combo)

• Key to happiness is creating good humor. Laughter. Happiness is not something you achieve. It is what you think !! 
• Busy schedule is remedy for all problems. Empty mind creates distration

Few practicals

• Avoid excessive use of Gtalk ! :) :)
• don't analyse so much.. live the movement.. Hihihihihi..
• I feel really sorry for emotional dependant people. I am happy to be independant. :)

breaking circles

"All good things always have end". Santosh told me when i was on mumbai platform to catch train to Jamashedpur with leaving back memorable 6 years with JP youth wing work and looking at new XL life for 4 years. I was literally crying with close 7- 8 friends around me and everybody knowing that this was end. Those days would not come  back. Now, after 1 year i still remembers those moments.

Now seniors are leaving campus. I dont have close bonding with all seniors. But yes, footaball team i am surely missing. Same with my volleyball team and few individual members. Fact is that everybody here leaving campus is knowing those days are gone. New life has started. Time cant come back. Today we had last football match and JLT chat. I am feeling too much emotional. 

I know, everything will get settled again in few days. That is life !! yes .. i should enjoy it.

one should be like hero of "into the wild". Accept the fact that past will not come again. Take memories with you and enjoy the present !!

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There is always one thing which creates problem in all other things. Our life according to me is like some vehicle, where problem in one part can create problems in all other part. Consider example, when we see somebody not doing work well, we start blaming him or consider him as someone with less quality. But this happens because we see only that part. Many a times that person may have some other problem going on in his life which results in particular behaviour in other parts. Due to my current phase i am learning few things.

1]Never judge anybody based on particular behavior. any human being is always good. 

2]Whatever plan you may have, always expect something uncertain.

3] Real happiness is in creating joy at wherever u will go and whatever u will do.

4]tight schedulel is very much important. Try to break all the bonds otherwise u cant give your 100 %.

** today again writiing blog desparately...wanted to write something and i thing, i have written something..Anyway, it will reflect my some learning.

Tablet of happiness

Last week was very rigorous !! we were flowing together between different submissions and mid terms..Then surprisingly i got today's evening and night free !! I was so happy. I wanted to lot of things to do.. So i prepared one tablet of happiness and i took it with liquid of songs..Here is my report.. As I am under going managerial training, will write it in points.

1] i went to gym. Enjoyed cycling and weights and ultimately SHAVASAN !! (background was english rhythmic music)

2]Then i took my bicycle and went for cycling(1 hr). I went on one road going high up. I drive my cycle in 5 th gear !! enjoyed the pain. And then enjoyed flow while coming back on slope. (background was peaceful tunes !!)

3] I met some unknown person. I asked him some random things. He enjoyed chatting.

4] I saw one tree. I felt as if it is hanging in the sky !! (hihihi). I watched that one for 10 min.

5] then i came back. I called one of my friend, and went to Cafe coffee day !! (background loud music in cafeteria)

6] Then i wanted to go to temple. In between i helped one very old woman by giving money. Then i saw one cow very ill. I bought some banana's and tried to feed cow !!!

7] I came back and made one (bad ) painting in word paint !!

8] I heard summer of 69 and we will rock you in loud volume !!

9]I took bath for half an hr in hot water. Before than shaving and then that smell of after shave !!

10] I had full bottle of water after heavy exercise.

11] Then i did prayer on  "Sarve Bhavantu Sukhinaha"

12] I interpreted one of the good poem by Ravindranath Tagore.

13] Then i had pastries from cafe coffee days. Shared them with friends and had chat abt "Pune"

14] I came back and called one of my very old friend with whom i had no communication for long time.

15] I Dreamed abt one movie , in which father would take his son on world trip, and would teach real meaning of life through actual experiences !!!

15]Now writing this blog.

16 ] Going to watch Liverpool Vs Real madrid football match at 1.30

I wanted to share this with somebody. lot of people are around me. I can call any of my friends in pune. But still nobody is there. (background song is my fav lonely song so gaya..)

What is happiness ? I say all above as tablet because i did all that but on back of mind i was enjoying a dream of sharing all this experiences with friends. Real joy was of feeling of sharing. So it is tablet and not state of happiness !!

Ya , I will accept that now my battery is 100 percentage charged but then,

May god help me in achieving real state of happiness in future !!

2 by 2 matrix

One beauty of management education is that in any subject for most of the concept, their is choice of selecting one of the quadrant of 2 by 2 matrix.. It is all trade off and decision making. there will be two parameters with two values streched and 4 different styles !!

i got one great idea !! i will  collect all such 2 by 2 matrices from all the subjects and will put it together and will publish 200 page book "2 by 2 "..And under each page , i will put interpretation of that concept in  real life wihin 2 sentences.. !!

Vision statement for my shaolin school will be MANAGEMENT OF LIFE -  finding the conficts of free mind. Deciding the trade-off. washing all other quadrants and following your passion !! 

Let hope each one will able to implement above statement in their own life including me....

race is on....

Last two week whole batch was enjoying quite relax schedule very rare in their buzy b-school life..then came the news of bad CRP in campus.. People started feeling pressure..then came result for 2 nd term.. there were quite a few prof in 2 nd term , who gave very bad grades.. decrease in CQPI.. what to do now ? You can't imagine the atmosphere in our batch now. Next week is going to be reflection of all..I am dam sure atleast 10-20 people will be there , who will spend their whole week sleepless.. add on to that we have lot of submission and 4, big 4 midterms..I really feel scary by imagining the next week situation in Xl..

I feel lost in such environment.. How one B-school should be ? They should go to various places and should solve real problem.. If grades are out, nobody should even visit the office as actually study is not grades but something else. I know that people have taken loans and that is the reason why they feel pressure...but anyway according to me these people are of such catagories that resulted in action of taking 7 lakh loan and coming for mba education. My dream of education and what i am actually doing are completely different.. But i have to that.. for first year.From second year , i will study on my own way !!

I had imagined that my XL fellows would be each one diamond having high self efficacy and doing something different.. but there are very few like this.

Conflict and trade off are fancy terms to study in management education...But in real life , what a big role they are playing ? God, give me the power to choose right one..Ya, i will create my own school of shaolin were , i will learn all this.

Leaves and flowers are falling down.. Vasanta (most probably) has started.. What a beauty it is.. XL campus is really heaven.. Why cant we have some Bodhi tree class or JLT katta sessions ? there is great need of dynamism in XL..

Now philosophy is over.. I have a marketing and IR class.. Again back to study of such a  system that to lock the people than providing them freedom..?

again after long time !!

when u start writing after long days , it becomes difficult to write..there are so many things but all trying to go in back up and nothing nin catche ..:)

Recently important activities in life are - XL-IIMC meet cancelled because of shift of placement(global effect on local sport meet :)), conflicts about motivation and learning theme going through my mind, Chilka Sarovar travelling, reading Jungle book again, Sigma conference- vijay Mahajan speech, seniors placement and so on...

First time in six month i am in confused state- feeling the distance from Jnana Prabodhini..

I think manthan is going inside my mind. something will come out after one or two month..Everything going under turbulence, issue of emotional independancy, social entrepreneur Vs Faculty, some thing missing in life - dont know what ?..After this one month and 3 month summer, i am hoping that i will again in no question state..somebody in my college got job for 1600000...What really worth that ? I have seen people working 14-16 hrs and earning 50 rs...What is answer for this ? why it is like this ? And height is that people have ""services"" for serving these people during placement.. I cant do that... I dont understand that..

Good thing is that i can observe myself during all this and can laugh on myself watching as a third person..

One thing is clear, nobody can give answer to your queries. You have to find answers on your own.